Sharon Neva 23 years, 1 month ago

MARIA~~CONGRATULATIONS ON GETTING YOUR DATE~~ Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined. Dream what you want to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be because you have only one life and only one chance to do all the things you want to!!

Kendra S. 23 years, 1 month ago

Maria, congratulations on getting your date. I hope everything happens quickly and smoothly for you.

Cheila E. 23 years, 1 month ago

Maria, CONGRADULATIONS on geting your date!!!!!!! I will be praying for you to have a safe journey to the losing side. :)

scarletlady 23 years, 1 month ago

Maria -- I wish you the very best in your journey. I too am a patient of Dr. Capella and just had surgery March 3, and I am recuperating. I wish you a speedy journey to the other side.

Cherri W. 23 years, 2 months ago

Maria, I'm sending you lots of e-mail hugs. Please take no offense at the unintentional oversight to your requests for information. I personally did not respond to you because being a newby to the website myself and being pre-op, I did not feel that I had anything to contribute in answer to your request for help. However, I read the posts to the website everyday and I do know that people like Momma Angel, Sharon Neva and Teena Adler are quite good about sending posts of encouragement to all of us at some point along our journey. Sometimes, though it may take a wakeup call or two to get people's attention. I think you got it. May God bless you during this process.

smedley200 23 years, 2 months ago

Maria I am sorry that you felt ignored, I know how you feel as well. I think a lot of it is that there are just so many posts and they are not in any thread just all over the place and people are always posting things like what is your favorite movie crap and then 10,000 people answer. Then in the middle someone begging for support is missed. I finally stopped reading the message board for a long time because all I was seeing was "friends" chatting. I feel your pain, I am a year out so if you need help email me at [email protected] I have been thru the wringer so don't get scared by what you read on my profile, it does not happen to all, but I like people to see the whole picture. Take care dear. And dont get down if people blast you with nasty emails, that happened to me with a post the other day, but I got a lot of supporting emails too so that made the biggest difference.

cindy 23 years, 2 months ago

I am still waiting, but to see my surgeon, I have my first consult for April 17th. I think waiting for the insurance is the hardest part of this journey, I think it is because you have no control over that part, someone else is making the decision. Hold on, it will happen and then you will really be on your way. God Bless

L. Brown 23 years, 2 months ago

Hi Folks, I have been honored by being asked to be Angel for Maria. She is just beginning the journey, waiting for her initial consult with the surgeon after going to an informational meeting. Those of you who remember the excitement and fear of this waiting game, please write to Maria and give her some support, she could really use it. You are all the best!

L. Brown 23 years, 2 months ago

Maria, Hi. Read your post, see you're looking for an angel in Bergen County. I live in B.C., had my RNY with Dr. Benotti in July this past year, and am now down almost 100 lbs.(3 more pounds to go!) I would be happy to be your angel. You can write to me privately at my e-mail address if you'd like. Good luck at your consult next week!

tmcgee 23 years, 2 months ago

Maria, Good luck with your surgery. I worry about hair loss too. I have been told that the hair loss is related to insufficient protein intake. So, I am looking into different protein supplements. Take care, and keep us posted.
About Me
NJ
Location
24.1
BMI
RNY
Surgery
07/21/2003
Surgery Date
Jan 15, 2003
Member Since

Before & After
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7-01-03 20 Days to a New Me
257lbs
7/21/04 -- SIZE 8 Living & Loving the New Me
154lbs

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