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kylakae 23 years, 2 months ago

Kathryn, it's so good to see you posting on the board again! You always have such great things to say and I've missed your wise comments!

kylakae 23 years, 2 months ago

Hey Kathryn, it was great to see an update from you! I understand the whole weight gain thing, that happened to me, too! Luckily I got it under control but I really have to fight to keep my weight down. My hubby has started hitting the gym and I've been going with him. I'm still hoping to have my plastics soon and I can't wait to have a flat tummy and perky boobs. *laugh* Anyways, good to hear from you! Love and hugs!

Linda B. 23 years, 2 months ago

Hi Kathryn...thanks for giving us all the update on how you are doing. Congratulations on your fabulous weight loss. God Bless.

kylakae 23 years, 4 months ago

Kathryn, come out, come out, wherever you are! *laugh* Just checking in to see how you are doing. I'd love to see you post an update and a new pictures. I just know the picture on your profile doesn't do you justice! I've been considering starting yoga and wondering if it will help me tighten up my loose skin. With all your yoga do you have "skin" issues? Anyhow...just wanted to know how you are doing and tell you that you are missed! Big hugs and lotsa love!

Cinna G. 23 years, 10 months ago

Happy ONE Year Anniversary to You! I hope that this post finds you healthy and happy. Please remember to drop by and update your profile from time to time. It's important for others to be able to see how we post-ops do on our journeys. You never know who you might inspire. Have a great day.

kylakae 23 years, 11 months ago

Kathryn, thank you so much for updating your photo! Wow...you look terrific! I can't wait to see you in clothes that fit! We miss you on the board but I'm glad to hear that you are doing so well!

kylakae 24 years ago

Kathryn, it was great to see an update from you and to hear that you are doing well and are gainfully employed! I look forward to seeing your updated photos! Congratulations on all your success!

kylakae 24 years ago

Hey Kathryn! People are asking about you on the message board. Where have you gone? We miss you! Come out, come out, wherever you are!

Anna L. 24 years, 1 month ago

Are you a long lost relative to me? I swear I can totally relate to your recent post! Fortunately I also have a platonic male friend who seems as smart as yours is...and he has given me some good advice the past couple of years. And now I am FINALLY listening to him. That's why I believe that when I am able to have WLS I will be better prepared to handle relationships. I can SOOOOOo relate to what you said about how hard it was for you to just say NO to that guy. There were times, I'm ashamed to admit, that I KNEW in my heart that a guy only wanted sex...but still I thought just maybe if I do it... This came after my first divorce. Married 8 years to the guy who took me to senior prom. We were both young and very inexperienced. I always thought he was the first guy to accept me as I was. But then one day, when our only son was about 3, my mother-in-law asked us when we were going to have another baby. Right in front of everyone, my husband said, "not until SHE loses some weight." I was hurt beyond belief! And at that time I was exercising, weighed less than 200 lbs. Within a year after that comment, a sexy neighbor man hit on me. I was so surprised! I had only been with 1 other boy before meeting my husband my senior year. Needless to say, I had a brief affair. But I soon ended the marriage myself because the guilt was killing me. After that divorce I used that time, or so I told myself, to sow the wild oats I hadn't had a chance to. In reality all I did was let myself be used, become more depressed and more obese. Bottom line of all this rambling, Kathryn...DO NOT LET ANY ONE, MALE OR FEMALE, DEFINE WHO YOU WANT TO BE. DO NOT LET LONLINESS OR INSECURITY CAUSE YOU TO LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. TRUST THE LITTLE VOICE YOU HEAR, LISTEN TO IT. IT WILL SAVE YOU SO MUCH FUTURE HEARTACHE. And for me, PATIENCE has been the key. I hope I have said at least one thing that may be of some help. Take care AMOS friend. - Anna

Teresa B. 24 years, 2 months ago

Kathryn, Just wanted to let you know that I have always enjoyed reading your posts. Some of the things, I can really relate to. When I read your posts, I feel like I am reading a book. You are an excellent writer. Take Care and good luck in your journey. sincerely,