Hi, Elizabeth: Congratulations on your surgery date! Yes, it's perfectly normal to feel scared, anxious, excited, petrified, and everything else all at the same time! Let me tell you, though, that the fear of living in the pain and despair that I was in was greater than the fear of surgery to me. I'm on my way to diabetes; I have hyper and hypoglycemia, my grandma has severe type 2 uncontrolled diabetes and I have watched her slowly declining over the years. In my opinion, it's a slow death. She's only 72 years old and is in a nursing home because she has already had to have one leg amputated. Let me tell you, that puts the fear of God into me right there. I also have other problems that were just not going to go away unless I took some drastic measures to decrease my weight and improve my health. I'm happy to say now that I'm 13 days out and am down 19 lbs. I feel better than I have in at least 5 years. Good luck, sweetie, and God Bless!