Sorry about the mistake just now, (there will be a post with just my name, no comments) this is the first time I have ever posted to a sugery page, but after reading your post I had to tell you that first off your mom should not have told you this before your big day! how mean! and also, trust in the lord and KNOW that dreams are just dreams, a persons fears coming out while they sleep, your aunt is proably afraid something will happen to you, but...right now you can't be worried about her fears when you have your own, and no matter how much we are prepared for this sugery at some point those fears do come out, so what I am trying to say is hang in there and when you start feeling afraid think of the wonderful things in life that you have to look forward to and the better health that you are going to have, and get those bad thoughts out of your head''you have nothing to fear but fear itself'' please remember those words, and good luck to you I will be looking for your angel's post or yours if you don't have an angel, if you don't its not the end of the world, I made it through sugery without one and I did just fine, hang in there and know you are thought of. Trena G