Lois G. 23 years, 4 months ago

Leslie, So sorry to hear your news. My husband of 25 years filed for divorce shortly after our 25th anniversary. We had been in separate bedrooms for several months or a year. Our relationship was so bad. But now, 8 years later, I can assure you that my life is amazingly better. Don't give up ... the future is full of many surprises. Deal with your pain privately, and then be actress and go on with your life, if you can. By the way, I have twins, too. They just turned 27 on Dec. 26. It's been a trip !

Kristy J. 23 years, 4 months ago

Keep your chin up. Things will get better. Hopefully everyone will come around after. They are just trying to control you into changing your mind. It is so worth it!

luckyflowers 23 years, 4 months ago

I will be thinking of you on your big day!!

Merry I. 23 years, 4 months ago

Leslie, Best wishes to you on your upcomming surgery. I hope you have a speedy recovery, Take care of yourself and Happy Holidays! Mary

jjettrox 23 years, 4 months ago

hi leslie, congrats on your wls date of january 20th.that's my daughter's 16th birthday..what a great day to start your new life..i am having a lap rny on january 16th..so we're close to the same date..i wish you the very best with this and i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers..i'll see you on the other side.. may the lord keep us all safe and healthy.. take care and merry christmas!! :> jeanne/ca.

meredith L. 23 years, 4 months ago

I wish you luck and best wishes on your big day! My open RNY is 01/13/2003 in Indiana. I just moved from Atlanta in September. What a great way for you to start the new year for us! God bless you and hope you have a speedy recovery and speedy weight loss!

Sharon Neva 23 years, 4 months ago

LESLIE~~ I know you feel like you let your little boy down, but focus on the positive- next time this year it will be a WHOLE OTHER BALL GAME!! ~~BEST WISHES ON YOUR WLS JOURNEY~~ May the world hug you today with its warmth, and love.....Pray it whispers a joyful tune in your heart.....And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend sitting in another corner of the world wishing you well!~~

Laura H. 23 years, 4 months ago

Dear Leslie--

blank first name B. 23 years, 4 months ago

Leslie, We all go through that. You need to find a support group in your area. Just click on "local Help", above and you will find a local support group. I've had all those feelings you are having and some. My doc has never lost a patient and worried me thought will I be the one. But with any thing in life you take chances. Since you are a christian like I am either way you will get a new body. Have faith in God. I've been waiting for a long time also my surgery date is 12/19/02. I will keep you in my prayers. I've had seconds thoughts every day, I guess I will until the the end. God Bless

kylakae 23 years, 4 months ago

Leslie, congratulations on your upcoming surgery. May peace and love surround you on your journey and carry you along safely. Remember to drink your water, take your vitamins, walk daily and most importantly, be gentle with yourself along the way. Lastly, don't forget to stop by occasionally and update your profile. As you know, our profiles provide a lifeline to others embarking on this journey. You never know who you might inspire!
About Me
Lawrenceville, Ga
Location
51.0
BMI
RNY
Surgery
01/20/2003
Surgery Date
Apr 12, 2001
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