Leslie, So sorry to hear your news. My husband of 25 years filed for divorce shortly after our 25th anniversary. We had been in separate bedrooms for several months or a year. Our relationship was so bad. But now, 8 years later, I can assure you that my life is amazingly better. Don't give up ... the future is full of many surprises. Deal with your pain privately, and then be actress and go on with your life, if you can.
By the way, I have twins, too. They just turned 27 on Dec. 26. It's been a trip !