Hi All! Still posting from my surgery page, because nothing else works!! I wanted to respond to Jill W. post today. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls, wife of a most of the time loving husband. For the past 19 years, I have been someone's mother, wife, volunteer.....I completely stopped taking care of me. The weight I gained during those times put my health in danger. 2003 is the year for Cheryl. I don't mean that selfishly, I mean it to take care of me. I want to be able to live the rest of my life without the worry of how obese I am or will become. I have been through so many hurtful moments because of my weight. It is something you really have to search inside about. For me, it has been the best decision, even though I am not feeling so hot right now, I know my future will be brighter! So look inside Jill......