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Laura-n-GA 22 years, 11 months ago

Sending soothing and calming thoughts your way. I understand your feelings all too well. Had the doctor not given me something for nerves while I waited to go back to surgery I would have walked out of the hospital. I was beginning to panic and second guess my decision as they were getting ready to move me from preop to surgery and I think they saw how anxious I was...by all means ask for something for your nerves when you are waiting on the morning of surgery. WLS will give you back your life. So focus on the positives that you'll be blessed with, maybe plan a vacation in your head or a shopping expedition or the tiny bathing suit you'll buy and try not to think about surgery. Prayers for your peace of mind. ~L~

Beverly1956 22 years, 11 months ago

Kathy, congrats on your upcoming surgery date. I know you have had a hard time getting to this point with doubt and fear but just have faith it will go wonderfully. I was ready for it to soooo much worse than it was. It was really a very postive experience. Just keep a good attitude about it and know the discomfort is only for a short time. As far as your family goes...they will come around. Either they are worried about you, or if overweight themselves...jealous. You have to do what is right for you and you won't regret it. Open RNY 5/5/03

JC C. 22 years, 11 months ago

Kathy - I am sorry that your family doesn't understand or support your decision. This is unfair and very selfish of them, but you have to let it go. Later on when you have improved your life and found a sense of happiness and peace withinn yourself it will not burden you. All of us here are supporting and caring about you, so let that be your final thought when you enter this new world. I'm 17 days post-op and there are so many things going on that take up my time that I wouldn't have time to think about those that don't get it. You're going to do just great. God bless and protect you, I'll keeping you in my prayers. Jen in AZ

granola 22 years, 11 months ago

Kathy, Good luck and God bless. I too do not have total family support and I understand. My mom and 4 sisters are all die-hard Weight Watchers and very successful and cannot understand why I can't do it. So, going through this, (though I am in the early baby stage) alone is tough. Thank God I have a loving supportive husband and one thin sister who does understand and supports me. You go girl...will be sending you lots of "energy" Tuesday.

TheresaC 22 years, 11 months ago

Congratulations on your upcoming surgery. The big day will be here before you know it! 2003 is your year to move onto a healthier and thinner life. Good luck!

Justin F. 22 years, 11 months ago

I had the exact same problem you had right before the surgery. Don't sweat it. They are just worried about you. Anyways, after the surgery now everyone is so prou of me and thinks it is the best decision I have ever made for myself. Go figure!!!. Good luck on your upcoming surgery and I hope you have a speedy and painless recovery.

roseanneporcelli 22 years, 11 months ago

Hi Kathy...I've gone alot of years having the most wonderful support from friends and a totally CLUELESS family..I have to say thank GOD for the gifts that have been sent to me in the form of the dear women who really know me..He must have known that my family wouldn't be able to fulfill what I needed! Is it surprising that those of us who have issues with compulsive overeating have families that leave alot to be desired (dare I say dysfunctional)? Remember Sweetie..HE is ALWAYS with you and will NOT forsake you.....HE PROMISED! Love, Roseanne

Sharon Neva 22 years, 11 months ago

KATHY~~ YOU ARE NOT ALONE~~When the storms of life are raging...and the clouds are all around....and you think you're all alone.... just take a look around.....When there is no one there to talk to and you're feeling sad and blue and you think no one will listen.... I'll be the light in the storm for you......Even though we've never met or seen each other's smiles....Our friendship is from the heart, not sight....And it can span the miles......We all are one winged angels....alone it is impossible to fly....But if we embrace each other....we can span the sky...

PookieW2 22 years, 11 months ago

Kathy, good luck with your surgery. Relax and take some deep breathes. You are doing this for you and not your family. I know it must be very disheartening that they aren't 100% behind you but you are the only one who can make this work for you. If I lived in Fla., I would be there with you on the 3rd!!! All of my thoughts and prayers will be.........Linda

kle0007 22 years, 11 months ago

Kathy---good luck on your surgery on Tuesday! Godspeed on a quick and unevenful recovery!!