Laura: After all you've been through with the initial denial and David's accident (yes, someone was reading your page! And, I'm sure more than one person! LOL), you deserve this! I'm wishing you only the best for an uneventful surgery and smooth recovery. :) Yes, there are many adjustments to being a 'thin' person and people do treat you differently, but I'm sure you will work through those issues in due time! All the best, (lap ds with gallbladder removal, January 25, 2001, Dr. Gagner/Mt. Sinai/NYC, preop: 307 lbs/bmi 45 (5'10") now: 162 lbs/bmi 23)