Susan, let me be the first to congratulate you on your upcoming surgery! I'm so happy you have such an *angel* in your mother in law! May you be blessed with an easy surgery and a rapid, painless recovery. I think you've made a good choice with the lap RNY, my friends who have gone that route recovered so much faster than I did. Remember to drink your water, take your vitamins, walk daily and most importantly, be kind to yourself in your journey to a healthier you!