CaseyinLA 23 years, 11 months ago

Marcie, I'm so sorry that you're feeling so hurt. Feel as bad as you need to feel...cry...seek support...and in the end, don't give up on people. The world also has some wonderful ones, and my prayer for you is that more and more of them will begin entering your life. Big, big hugs.

Mary H. 23 years, 11 months ago

CONGRADULATIONS ON SUCH A GREAT LOSS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tanya F. 23 years, 11 months ago

Marcie, I am so sorry that you are depressed today. I would like to wish you a little bit of encouragement though to help you along. You have made the first step at taking control of your life by having this surgery and then using it to help you become healthier. The next step is yours. There is a rainbow at the end of this storm. If you feel he is not worthy of you, then get out now. Save yourself and your son. Take control! Next thing I would tell you is to take some time off away from men. Get to know the new improved you, spend time with your son, and grow those relationships. Please don't get out of one bad thing and jump into another (speaking from experience). Please read my profile for the story of where I have been to where I am now. I have had the bad relationship, divorced, jumped into several other bad relationships during the first year after, and then took the next two off. I was in no means a hermit, I went out, I had fun, I even dated some, but I was determined not to get serious with anyone and I didn't. It took me 4 years to heal enough to have a healthy relationship and now I have my Prince Charming... Yours is out there too. Please, please, please do not sell yourself short. You are worth more!! If you want to talk, please feel free to write me. I am no expert, but I have been through some of the things you are going through and have been through extensive counseling, and I dated a shrink off and on for two years... that should qualify me in itself LOL LOL Anyway, if you need me, I am here! Take care of you and keep on the path to a healthier you. Love,

Diana M. 23 years, 11 months ago

Dearest Marcie, I am so sorry that you are depressed today. I can relate to your situation. I was in a co-dependent relationship with a man that was an alcoholic. My 1st daughter was 2 yrs. old while I was dating him, and he wasn't very nice to her. When I left him, I was a shell of a woman. It took 2+years and counseling to realize that I was worth more than that! I am now married, have another daughter with my husband, and he treats my 1st girl as if she is his own. <P><b>YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!!</B> It may be painful, but put yourself and your son first, and move on. Your prince charming will find you!! May the Lord bless you everyday!! Your Amos Friend, Diana

Judi H. 24 years, 6 months ago

Marcie~ Glad your feeling well. Hope I so as well. I am having a open RNY on nov 1st. You will be in my prayers for a speedy recovery Judi

AngelNTx65 24 years, 6 months ago

Marcie~I wish you the best with your upcoming surgery.Congrats on taking this important step to better your health.It will be the greatest thing you have ever done for yourself.Please keep us posted. God Bless~Kim
About Me
Cambridge, NY
Location
27.5
BMI
RNY
Surgery
10/15/2001
Surgery Date
Mar 08, 2001
Member Since

Before & After
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This is 5 mos. post op, down 91 lbs. from night before surgery, 116 from highest
230lbs
10 mos post op down 144 from surgery, 169 from highest
177lbs

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