Dear Carolyn,i felt so sorry when i read of your daughter getting distraught re:your surgery.If she is old enough to believe in the Lord----tell her He will bring you thru this just fine.And every time she starts to worry about you---she should just ask Him to help her thru this time---and He will.That usually works for us with my grandkids.Good luck.You are in my prayers.Hugs & Blessings