Nicole, thanks so much for your post.l I do find it difficult to be the mom that I should be to my daughter. I literally bite her head off at the littlest thing. I always apologize, but that's not good enough I just need to walk away from her when she is pushing limits, but it is so hard some days. I am anxious to have the surgery and pray that both you and I don't have any complications. Keep me posted! Mari