Donna Harrison
I still have a looser magnet on my forhead!!
Jul 26, 2009
I am a quite disappointed that dating after WLS hasn't been any more rewarding.....I always blamed my lack of meeting "quality" men on my weight.....I always thought that I attracted loosers cuz I was fat...or even worse, I went out with "anyone who would ask me" even knowing they were not good choices because I thought "I had no choice"...well many years out...I am not having any better luck.. I imagined I would have gentlemen coming up to me asking me out once "I lost weight"..well that is not happening...it is easier to get an On-line date with a nicer pix, but the quaility so far has not been there...but what do I expect for on-line dating...or is that a myth...I don't know...is it that I am just old? ( 52)...is it that I have unrealistic expectations?...anyone else have this experience?...I am still lonely after wls...granted my self-esteem is greatly improved and I am walking away from the loosers where I would have stayed and taken the crap......that is an amazing transformation that I am very grateful for....don't get me wrong...