re a few of my humble words of advise to all Pre-ops!Try not to gain too much weight before surgery
Make sure you buy everything you need for post op ... foods ect, having it all at the house makes it easier to manage after surgery for everyone... Peace of mind knowing you have what you need
i am a popsicle junkie now.... they are amazing
Your tastes will change... I hate to eat right now ... so My best advise is to enjoy everything you put in your mouth now ... there is a grieving process after surgery when all you are eating is liquids... YOU wish you could eat, you crave, foods ... want something crunchy ... yummier ... not sloshy!
Buy something roomy and comfortable to wear.... I have worm my nightgown for 5 days.... I wash it every other day and put it back on.... its comforting and feels good
You wont have a lot of energy after surgery ... make sure you have a good support system in place. People to pamper you....
Your body will hurt
Not just where your incision is ... but other places too, the anesthesia makes things inside you uncomfortable... They pump a lot of gas into your abdomen...
Find someone who gives good foot rubs. They are very relaxing and comforting.
You may find yourself discouraged when others eat around you... I know I do. or when food commercials come on TV....
Just go to another room.
I am a chef by trade ... so this is a bit of a shock to me. This not liking food thing. I think though when I can eat more "normal" foods it will be easier.
Take as much time off as you can... Suggested re-coop time is 6 weeks.
A few days before surgery I cut 8 inches off my hair and donated it to a cancer charity "lock of love" It felt great, and Its much easier to take care of now... Not saying this if for everyone... But it sure does help.
My last little bit of advise for now... You can tell yourself that, hey - I know I am going through this life changing operation ... and yeah... My new life is going to be so different. You can think that in your mind all you want... BUT
You wont
FEEL IT
Till you wake up on the other side.
Hope this helps!
Huggs