lorelei70

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I have told my family and friends that I have made up my mind to go through with the surgery but I don't really feel like I'm getting the support I need. People say they are being supportive, but then dump all of their opinions on me and I don't feel like that is really being supportive.  Right now most specifically my mother and mother-in-law. I don't know why it is so important for me to have their support, but it is.  My Mother-in-law is going to be around a lot after the surgery helping with my kids and I feel like it will be really awkward for me if I don't have her on my side. I fear that time is going to be hard enough for me alone, without having to worry or hear what she is thinking. I know I'm scared to do this but I know I HAVE to do this. Right now it feels like the only way out of this fat body that I have.  And I am seeing that no one else really understands that but me. I just don't know how to get the support I need.