KysaRenee
A lil about me..
Feb 13, 2009
I was engaged to a wonderful man and everything in my life was going the best it has ever been, we got pregnant and were excited.My first and his 3rd. He is in the army and was all over the place our 3 1/2 year relationship. Well to make a long story short, I left everything, and moved to ga where he was stationed last.. Hated it there,but was with the man I loved whole heartedly.. 5 months into my pregnancy I found out he was cheating and confronted him about it and he decided to leave.. The dr took me out of work due to my asthma problems and gestational diabeties.. He had to continue paying bills untill our lease was up 6 more months..(his sgt made him).. I had my daughter august 18 2006 by c section, she weighed 9 lbs 2 oz.. big girl.. ANyhow I was released 2 days after went home done everything I was supposed to do.. 3 days after that my friend was cleaning my section and noticed a rotten hole being eaten right thru my stomach on my right side kinda.. It was the size of a tennis ball.I went to the ER and they booked me of course.. At first I was told I had the flesh eating diesease and was scared to death because I was being a mom to my daughter and my friends and family are around, and its very contagious..I wasnt worried about myself, i was concerned about everyone else..Well a week went by and I had to go into surgery to remove 30 lbs of infected stuff..Being preped my anistsiologist asked me why was I crying and I told him what I was being told..He calmed me down and explained if that was the case then I would have been in immediatly surgery..I asked what was it, he told me a massive staph infection that ate my insides.I was a lil relieved but not much. I just had a baby girl that I tried having for 6 years and now I may not be around for..It was scarey.. So went for surgery came out ok, they reopend my section and cut me from hip to hip, left me wide open and packed me... Very painful.. Now this is in Georgia, My parents drove from oklahoma to ga when I had my daughter and stayed a few days and drove home.. Then had to call them the day I was admitted and told them what was happening and they came back to take my daughter(her father wanted nothing to do with her or me)They stayed right before my second surgery to take more infected stuff out.. Took my daughter back to oklahoma with them..My father is a quadriplegic who fell at work in 1991..Anyhow... Went for my surgery and they closed me up half way and put 2 drains in each side..A week later I was finally released to go home.. Wohooooo but It was so painful, i couldnt do anything, stand up, take a shower, eat.etc.. So I lost about 60 lbs almost 40 just from removal of infection..The other cause I couldnt eat,everything burned and so I was drinking enures.eewww..lol...
I was in the hospital for almost 6 weeks and I missed my daughters first 6 weeks of life.. The day I had to go for a check up in oct, I asked if I can travel to at least go home to oklahoma with my parents.My lease was up oct 26th and I wasnt working and my babys father wasnt obligated to renew the lease or pay the bills any longer.I had to go.. My dr was reluctent to say yes but he did because I had no choice.. Thank God....
My parents drove back to ga packed up my apartment and moved me home. I have been in oklahoma since oct 06.. the first year was the very hardest,I couldnt do anything much less take care of my daughter.I gained so much weight from not being able to do anything but healing from the inside out.. Very difficult..I couldnt walk holding my baby, my mom had to take her from me after feeding,changing her to put her in her bassinet,swing, etc.. I was depressed and felt like a failure as a mother.. And sometimes I still feel that way.I can take care of her now but I gained so much weight that its hard for me to do some things.. So thats my lil story..I not trying to live off the state or anything like that.I used to work full time, pay taxes and live good and on my own.. I tried to go back to work last year and it killed me, I had so much pain in my stomach and couldnt move afterward..My dr here in oklahoma ran catscan after catcan and only thing he noticed was alot of scar tissue that attactched itself onto things inside and its pulling and tugging causing me lots of pain.. He wanted to go in and remove most of my scar tissue but that wouldnt have helped much since I would have more from that surgery.. Well like I said in my original post, I dont have insurance any more..And moving to cali is an option that I would seriously take..I have gained over a 100 lbs since oct 06.. thats terrible..
I dont know what straight medi-cal is or means.I dont know anything other than I can try to see if I can get help..I have never applied for disability because I thought you need a dr to say you werent able to work.. I dont have a dr so that wont work.. Have a blessed day..
My best friend and I are planning on moving back to palmdale/lancaster california,her and I used to roomate years ago before her last marriage and before my engagement...I really really want this surgery and I will explain why in this email..a lil info about my life.. Currently she lives in Lebec, cali..Which I am flying to march 4th..
