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So.... It has been quite the ride.  I had RNY on July 29th, 2011--- It is now, Dec. 9th, and thus far, I've lost 60 pounds thus far.  Although I have not lost "ONE" single pounds since last month; I decided to get my butt into gear.  Literraly, I started a jogging routine.  3.5 mile jog 5x's a week--  I am watching my intake, and do not do sugar at ALL--  I hope to kick start the weight loss again, because now I am not sure I will lose any more... I was suppose to lose 100 pounds, and here I am stuck on 60 pounds.

 

I suppose this is my way of venting about a certain situation that I wish I could handle differently--   I had RNY July 29th, 2011 and I have been fortunate enough to have found an amazing support group.... But before I started surgery, I met a person whom was also going in for surgery at about the same time as I and immediately hit it off--  We had so many things in common; and I was elated that she and I would embark on this journey together, being able to get to know eachother and help one another through the entire ordeal.... I imagined having endless conversations about our shared new adventures.... However, this person has not following ANY of the steps and or phases thus far.  Matter of fact, she never did get on a 'liquid' diet 2 weeks prior to her surgery.    To each their own I realize, yet, It made me feel sooo badly for her.  Instead, I decided to comfront  her about her choices but she kept telling me that she would bypass the entire 2 weeks and just start 'testing' the waters....   This makes me so angry and so confused at the same time.  I am trying to not be judgemental about the entire thing but I am fighting with EVERYTHING I have to remain true to the entire process.  There are times where you must be even more selfish about your OWN issues than someone else's.... I will not phone this person again, nor will I feel badly about it.  --

Hello everyone!  My name is Raquel, and I had RNY 8/29/2011--    I am looking forward to getting to know people with similar interests and experiances throughout this journey.....