1/24/07 I am new to OH and currently considering WLS(lap band). I've read through all material on this site as well as the memorials. Jessica O's was different. An angel page mysteriiously flashed on my screen prior to her page coming up. I scrolled down and seen it was quite lengthy. As I decided to close it and read later, the page would not close so, I read it in it's entirity. I am so sadden and griefstrickened at this time. I feel a sense of regret for not having the opportunity to meet such a beautiful,strong mother,wife as Jessica. I could sense her strength and desire/will to live for her son Zeke....it was no longer for Jessica as any reader perceives Jessica was tired of the fight but, found strength and desire to live solely for her son Zeke. To me, Jess was saying...."SIMPLY OUT OF THE LOVE I HOLD FOR YOU MY DEAR ZEKE, I AM WILLING TO ENDURE THIS SUFFERING I AM IN!" What a sacrifice some might say but, I am sure we all know the strength/depth of a mothers' no limits/condition. Oh, how I wish I could have known Jessica and assist in any/all ways possible. If there is an educational fund set-up for Zeke please post it so we all at OH could fulfill Jessica's wish and make it possible for Zeke to be taken care of. Zeke, please know how much your mother loved you and KNOW she is with you spiritually always as I am sure she is with all she encountered and all whom is struggling with WLS. I wish her family my deepest/heartfelt condolences. I will keep all of you in prayers!