Jeannie your husband will come around, my mother in law an d I went thru the same thing with ou husbands......check out my page, I wrote all about it. They (husbands) tend to get insecure as well as scared during this time but they get over it. You have to do what is best for you and if this surgery is something you feel you and need, he will eventually support you. JUST DO IT!!!!!! he will be just fine, he will never understand what you are going thru and will never think this is the "best thing" because he loves you just the way are and doesn't think you "need to change". If you are waiting to get him on your side, you are in for a long wait. My husband loves the new me more than me!!!!!!!!He buys me all sorts of sexy nities and wants to touch me all the time, its great