Debbi, I'm sorry for your struggles! You've come so far, and while this may seem to be the end of the road, there are alternatives! You could try to push the insurance to cover a greater amount; try the Lindstrom fellow; or try someone else in another state or even another country. I had my surgery in Mexico for about $8200 (travel, surgeon, etc.), complete. I understand that there are some surgeons in Arkansas, Oklahoma and other places that cost less than $15,000. Keep your chin up and keep trying. Believe me... it's worth every penny I paid, even though it just about pushed me to bankruptcy (not quite, just thought about it real hard lately). However, I'm 2 months & 2 weeks out and down 60 pounds, off my blood pressure meds, and trying to sleep without my CPAP machine. Please e-mail me if you want to discuss your situation further. Best wishes, hugs and encouragement from your AMOS Sister, Deana.