Hello Alisa,
I just read your profile and wanted to thank you for sending me such a nice email. I want you to remember...we didn't gain weight overnight so it's not going to come off overnight. You are doing great and just think...that's 37 pounds gone forever! Everyone's progress is different and if you keep doubting yourself you're going to get back into those old habits of relying on food to comfort you. When I made the decision to have WLS I knew that I was one of those people who had to work harder to achieve results as its always been that way for me. I made up my mind that I wasn't going to focus on how much other people lost in such a short amount of time, but I had to focus on what would work for me. You have to know that this tool is your best friend and you have to make it work for you, so stop doubting yourself and know that you are going to be simply fabulous!!!
As for the gym...I joined Curves and have been really impressed with the results. The atmosphere is warm, friendly, and they staff and members really care about each other. The Curves I attend is so relaxing until I've worked myself up to going almost 5 days a week, but definitely 4 days for sure. If possible, see if there's a Curves in your area and consider joining as you won't be disappointed. It's a complete 30 minute workout that targets every area of your body. When you think about it...who really want to go to the gym and exercise for hours on end? As for your husband, he'll come around and start giving you the compliments you deserve and remember...its not about him either, its about what makes Alisa Henderson feel good about herself.
Keep up the good work and keep us posted on your progress. I will be here supporting you every pound of the way and know that your AMOS family is here for you whenever you need us.
Take care...