Jennifer, Anyone thaq loves you will have second thoughts every time. Just know and reassure him that you are doing this for your health, and that in turn will lead to a longer life together and one hopefully free of health problems due to weight. I was 258 when I had the surgery 5 months ato and have already lost 105lbs. i am so much better off. I have had 2 back surgeries one in 94 and one in 99, i was on blood pressure meds and now take nothing it has improved every aspect of my life. I can now bet on the floor and play with my grandbabies, run with my teenagers, shop, and not sufficate when I lay down and my husband and I have only been married 2 years (he was very scared, and at one point refused to let me have the surgery, then my surgeon told hom then look at her and tell her goodbye because if she does not have it you could be telling the woman you love goodbye now or for sure within the next 2 years because I can almost guarantee you she will have a stroke) He has been my number 1 cheerleader now and loves the difference it makes in our intimate life. the rewards are great from all points. i have sent my email address and my website thing if you want to read and maybe something there will help him too. I will pray for you and please keep me updated. ^j^ Email:
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