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LAURA B. 22 years, 8 months ago

DEAR VICKI, I WILL BE PRAYING THAT YOUR SURGEON'S HANDS WILL BE GUIDED BY GOD'S AND THAT HE WILL DIRECT YOU PATHS. JUST REST IN KNOWING THAT HE PROMISES TO NEVER LEAVE US OR FORSAKE US. GOOD LUCK TO YOU DEAR!! LAURA BOARMAN

Katie Y. 22 years, 8 months ago

Vicky I just wanted to send a big hug and let you know you're on my prayer list. I live in southern Indiana and I know what you mean about the heat/humidity here. God bless!

Debbie B. 22 years, 8 months ago

Vicki - Best wishes for an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery. May God hold you and your surgery team in his precious hands.

midlifestu 22 years, 8 months ago

Hi Vicki, and I sympathize totally with your fear of IV sticks. I have always had the same awful problem even when I was thinner years (and years) ago. When I had my RNY this past June 30, I did not hesitate to firmly request a subclavian IV (just below your neck). They told me that it was unusual to have a subclavian for this surgery, something I really don't understand because we hefty folks usually ARE difficult IV sticks), but the anesthesiologist put one in for me anyway. Let me tell you, it was WONDERFUL not to have to worry about having my IV restarted during the 4 days of my hospital stay. It was WONDERFUL that the RNs could draw blood samples for labwork from my subclavian. And of course IV fluids and pain pump medicines went in flawlessly as well. It did not bother me having the subclavian and I hope you will discuss having one yourself with your doctor and mainly your anesthesiologist. It sure made my hospital stay a lot more pleasant. :) Good luck as your DAY draws near. I shall be looking for your future posts and updates. HUGS

Lil K. 22 years, 8 months ago

Ps..iam most afraid of the IV also.My veins are just like yours ...And I really dont want a main line in my neck!!Ive been poked in the past over 15 times for one IV...only to havethe vein blow a hour later...but its all worth it...to be able to keep up with my kids ..still wishing u the very best,,,Nee Nee

Lil K. 22 years, 8 months ago

Vicki,Just read your post on the message board.I understand everyone is asking me a million questions ..am I afraid ..am I sure that I want to do it ?Hell yah ..Iam gonna do it ,,just like you.an we are both gonna be just fine.I loved your comment on how this is like a c section,,painful but well worth it ..but hey our gastric bypass wont get older..talk back..and demand everything thing from xbox to sean jean clothing ...Best wishes...Ill be think in about you on Monday,..may you have the most boreing uneventful surgery..of the day!!Nee Nee K

Godsgal 22 years, 8 months ago

HI VICKI, I BET YOU ARE GETTING EXCITED! MUCH SUCCESS AND CONGRATULATIONS ONCE AGAIN! SOON YOU WILL BE ON THE LOSING SIDE. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU.

kysunshine 22 years, 8 months ago

Vicki, Congrat's on getting your date, the 18th is right around the corner. Sorry to hear of your Mother's passing, I lost minein 97 and I would gve anything to have her here now and be able to see me finally having a healthier, slimmer life, but God called another Angel home. She was my biggest fan and like your Mother loved me no matter what size I was,I know she and your Mother would both be so proud. Take care and know you have many Angels watching over you. Keep us updated on your progress.

* Leilani * 22 years, 8 months ago

Hello Vicki - I know how you feel, my brother (who was 9 months and 2 weeks older then me) passed away and I remember the day I finally got approved I wanted him to be there to celebrate with me. BUT, I found such an inner peace in knowing that I had a real live angel watching over me. When I went into the operating room I wasnt even nervous, because I knew Bobby "WAS" there and I know your Mom will be there for you. <b>Congratulations</b> on your upcoming surgery date!   You'll find the changes that follow, nothing short of a miracle. For 20 years I prayed and hoped for a "second chance" in life to be healthier and thinner - I never thought I would get that chance, but I did, and now <u>so will you</u>.  My humble advice?  Walk as much as possible after surgery.  As your body begins to heal make sure to get in your protein, even if it means plugging your nose and chugging back the protein drinks in baby [pouch] gulps.  Vitamins need to be chopped, minced or crushed... whatever it takes to get them in daily, no exceptions, YOU are worth it.   Also, let's not forget your new best(est) friend, water.  It is SO important to get your minimum 64 oz in daily. One final thing, remember to <b>CELEBRATE</b> all the special moments along the way, big or small.  Too many people focus on the <i>number</i>, ie. pounds lost.  There are so many "moments" to look forward to and to embrace along the way - don't let any of them slip by.   Enjoy your new healthier life, you've earned it!!    Hugs and smiles -

OLD RODEO C. 22 years, 8 months ago

Best wishes to you on your upcoming, life saving surgery. We are both so pleased to be writing to you and sending all of our heartfelt congratulations to you for choosing this procedure to extend your life and to let you live your life to the fullest extent. We both had open rny's in 2001. Mine (Doug, aka: OLD RODEO CLOWN PANTS), was in Oct and I have lost 215 lbs. I started at 450!!!! My sweet wife, Nancy, had hers in June and has lost 110 lbs. We invite you to go read our profiles and hope it might help you in some way. We are not professional writers, but all that we wrote is true and honest. Just remember that YOU WILL SUCCEED!!! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOU CANNOT FAIL. We wish you all the best, a problem free surgery and recovery and a rapid weight loss. From: Doug and Nancy Wilson, La Mesa, CA,