Dear Ginny, I am so sorry that you had to go thru so many denials to get the surgery. You are an incredible inspiration to us all. I believe that 9/10ths of every thing that we do sucessfully, works due to a great additude, positive outlook, and self-determination. Look at how far you have come so far!!! In just 3 more weeks,and you will be beginning a whole new life. Congrats!!! I know you are nervous and excited at the same time. If we can survive all of the stuff for insurance (Had a bit of a problem but it was resolve in a month), all the letters that have to be written, and all the appointments to go thru pre-op, the surgery should be easy after all that is said and done. It will be smooth sailing from here on out, for me to have the surgery in less than 2 weeks, and you 3 weeks. It really does help to reach out and think positively. I have made myself an inspirational tape and I have been going thru books like 2 or 3 a week. Please keep us updated about your surgery, and feel free to email me if you need to talk. God Bless and best wishes for a speedy recovery. Mary Western Conway, SC Pre-op 284 BMI 43 Surgery Date 7/8/02