Mary - I read your profile today and I must say I was sadden by your complications. I know this surgery was meant to change your life but it wasn't meant to change it in this way. I will be praying for you. Please hang in there, I know it is hard but try to be positive. Sometimes positive thinking can help get you through tough times. Don - Please help Mary's spirits, you seem like a wonderful asset to her. I will be praying for both of you!