Lance, since you like the analogy of the cocoon, I thought you might also like this one.
I read this somewhere and just loved it,
Butterflys are a great symbol of WLS patients. Like the caterpillar, we move slowly. We are not particularly attractive - and most of us are a bit round. Soon, we enter the cocoon stage, where we hide from everyone and everything, and EAT and SLEEP. Then, after WLS we emerge from the cocoon, spread our wings, and when they are dry, we fly off, seeking summer flowers. I love the analogy, and can't think of a thing that is better. So, first the butterflies in your stomach, and in your thoughts - pretty soon, you will have them in your heart, and you will be so proud of yourself, and feeling darn good, too!" Best of luck. Don't forget to wiggle your new wings.
I'll be praying for an uncomplicated surgery and a quick and painless recovery. May the dear lord hold you and your surgery team in his hands tomorrow as you cross over to the losing side. Don't forget to stick your tongue out at all those Non-support people, when your sporting your new size 36 jeans!! Your Friend...