I'm 5' 3 and 228, just a little over 40 BMI. My insurance went right through. I too am scared to death to have this done, especially when you see someone like Melanie at 33 yrs. loose her life. From what I could see, she had an open operation because her insurance wouldn't pay for a RNY. I may be wrong though. I am due for surgery 10\1. I read all the memorials before deciding to have the surgery, dumb huh?? Then I read everything printed about my doctor and the hospital and went into see how long he had been doing the surgeries and how many. The mortality rate is less than 1%. With all that I decided to put my faith in God and have it done. Just had to write to you since you seem to have less to loose like me and also are worried about the risk.
Sandi