Melissa,
I am completely speechless!! First of all, I am sooooo sorry for what you have been going through.
I went through problems for a few months with the doc and dietician having no answers, I could not imagine going through what you have!!
Secondly, I will say a prayer for you tonight. That is all I can offer.
How much is a reversal? Can you ask your ins. co. what critia is needed to get one?
Maybe you can check other surgeons on this website and email them with your problem. Maybe someone has an answer.