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redstormy 21 years, 9 months ago

HI! Best wishes on your journey. If you haven't already, please check out the Iowa message board. (top of page, select IA and click on "go local") Lots of good info and great people! Many from your area too! Elizabeth

charanewme 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary you find comfort today knowing you are held close in the thoughts of those who care. My sincere sympathy. Charlene

Linda B. 23 years, 1 month ago

Hello Mary...you have my deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved son. I don't know what to say that will help you with your feelings and food right now but to say, keep reaching out to others and talk about your feelings and difficulties. Again, my condolences to you and to your family for your loss. God Bless.

Karen N. 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary, you and your family have my deepest sympathy and prayers in this time of terrible loss. Keep yourself as busy as you can tolerate. I find sewing/knitting/crocheting/neeplepoint keeps my hands and mins occupied as that I don't munch. My angel wings enfold you with comfort.

ceridwyn 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary Conrad ~ My family and I send our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you and yours during this very sad time of your lives. We understand how this is a true nightmare, and every mother's worst dread. Greive freely, express your sorrow to those that would listen, and know that one day your spirits will reunite. Don't worry too much about what you eat right now - the surgery will limit the amounts you are able to consume. Hugs, love and peace - The Hayes Family

Annette M. 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary--I just wanted to send my sympathy and prayers your way. I can't imagine losing a child. My advice re: food is just to take good care of yourself right now. Grieving is such a long, complex process--you need to be gentle on yourself right now. If at all possible, do walk or keep yourself moving--more than anything that can help you to keep your metabolism up during this difficult time. I wish you light and hope that you know that you are surrounded by warm wishes from the AMOS community. Annette

carol M. 23 years, 1 month ago

I am so saddened to know you lost your son. Any mother fears such a loss and my heart surely goes out to your and your family. In your surgery remarks, you said your family was very supportive of your decision to have the surgery, I assume this included your son. His support was built on love of his Mom and his hopes to see you live a healthier and happier life. In your Son' honor and memory, continue to keep the weight off and attain your goal weight. Lots of times us Mothers can do for the kids what we could never do "just" for ourselves. I would think you boy would have wanted you to succeed and would be cheering you on if he was here with you. Keep him in your heart and let his memory support your weight loss. I believe in Heaven and that after life here on earth the essence of ourselve somehow is still in touch with those that has passed on. I like to think that in every life there is a purpose...part of yours was to have your son and do your best to raise him. One day you will be together again and he can tell you how proud he is of you. Stay strong and don't let fear or regrets get you down. Ever forward... always becoming a better person, that's what will bring you happiness. May God Bless You and yours and may you feel the wonderful comfort and grace from Our Lord that will give you the strength to go on. Carol Marsili

Kate G. 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary, with heartfelt tears as only another mother can understand, I send you my deepest condolences. I am so very, very sorry that you lost your son. How tragic. Your family is in my prayers tonight. I am so moved by your situation. If there is anything I can do or if you need someone to "talk" to, please do not hesitate to email me.

Jamie M. 23 years, 1 month ago

Oh Mary, words cannot even express the sympathy and pain I feel for you and your family. You are definitely in my prayers. Jamie

Bethy413 23 years, 1 month ago

Mary, I am so sorry for you loss. Words can't even express it. God bless you and your family.