Karen,
I am so profoundly touched by your story... and you have never given up. It is so sad to have lost a grandchild to sids, as I did too. But somehow we find the strength to go on. And what strength you have found. WLS, and I swear you don't look a day over 40. You lucky devil! lol.
Love, peace and happiness to you and yours and wishes for the safest, most painless surgery ever. Lose that weight and get going even further! Hugs and love and hugs and love,
Melody Hayes